At Kids’ Sports Psychology, we’ve found that kids with high expectations–whether these expectations come from parents or from the kids themselves–are more likely to get angry. If they can’t achieve their own high standards, they get frustrated and angry rather quickly.
To help kids with high expectations, start with your own expectations. Are they too high? Are you pushing on your children some of your own goals or demands? Be careful what you tell them just before they perform. It’s best to tell them, “Go out there and have fun” instead of demanding they win or score 4 goals in the game.
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